"It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on infinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad."
(C.S. Lewis)
The past month, and the year to come, has and will be full of changes for my husband and me, as I've mentioned earlier. Change is good, but moving is the worst; not specifically leaving NY (though I can hardly believe it's been 2 years since we
moved to Brooklyn), or coming to Michigan, but just the act of moving. We'll most likely have to relocate at least a couple more times before we settle into what will hopefully be our permanent home, and even though we just got to Michigan this week and still have a lot of unpacking to do, I'm already dreading the next move a year from now because we'll have everything we just shipped or drove out here, plus everything we stored in NY, plus whatever we pick up along the way this year, plus baby gear and clothes... oh, and plus a baby! To keep from stressing, I think I'm just going to try to avoid thinking about it for the next several months at least.
Today is the first day of summer -- and the longest day of the year -- so I wanted to post a spring update now while I still have some time. I haven't finished uploading and looking through some of the more recent photos on my older camera, but please see below for some highlights from the last few months.
Spring Occasions
We flew to Chicago over the first weekend in April to celebrate our nephew Micah's 1st birthday. We made M&M and jelly bean candy pillars -- I did the one for the year of the snake, and Sam did the ones on the side -- which we took as our carry-on. (The ones Sam made got a little battered and started falling apart... just saying...)
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| Happy birthday, Micah! (Image: Frenzi Visuals) |
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| My sister-in-law Grace did an amazing job with the superhero theme |
Back in NYC, we went to the Party Rental Ltd. Spring Open House in mid-April to check out their newer products and get some refreshments before dinner. There was a lot of food -- and a donut table! -- so had we known, we probably would have just stayed there and snacked for a couple of hours.
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| When you work on events with strict budgets, it's hard to get fancy rentals |
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| Mmmm... donuts, drinks, and more food |
My father bought us tickets to see
La Bohème at the Metropolitan Opera, which we finally had the chance to do in April. I'm glad we were able to see this, Tosca, and The Magic Flute this past season.
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| La vie Bohème |
The day before Mother's Day, some of my good friends and I went to Ladurée in Soho for brunch, afternoon tea, and French macarons. Thanks again, ladies, for a lovely time!
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| I ate literally everything |
Our friends Julienne and Elliot invited us to the Queens Museum Gala in early June, which was a lot of fun. How could it not be, with an Andy Warhol-inspired photo booth and cotton candy for dessert? Elliot's father was honored at the event.
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| With our recently engaged friends |
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| Cotton candy |
In addition to family and friends' birthdays, Mother's Day, and Father's Day, spring was also a time for baby showers (Heather and Jeannie), and a bridal shower and wedding (Emily). Congratulations, everyone! It was an honor to be part of your special days.
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| Ushering, with my friend Leslie as receptionist |
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| I snuck in for a moment to capture Sam singing his solo for the bride and groom |
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| More photo booth fun |
Our 2nd Anniversary
On May 26, 2014, we celebrated our 2nd anniversary. We decided to go to Atlantic City, since it was close enough to drive to easily, but still felt different and far away enough from the city to get away for a couple of nights. We stayed at
Revel, which is one of the newest casino resorts in AC, and enjoyed some great meals, a relaxing stroll down the boardwalk, and a windy afternoon at the pool. I also spent some time at the wonderful
Exhale Spa. Neither of us really gambles, but I found my game: the
Sex and The City slot machine! I won $40.01.
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| Views of the hotel and our room |
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| Relaxing at the pool and spa, which had more pools and a salt room |
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| Yummy tapas and huge squid ink paella at Amada |
The day we returned to NYC, we had a reservation at
The NoMad, which capped off our anniversary celebration. If you haven't been there for dinner, the whole-roasted chicken for two and the milk & honey dessert -- their signature dishes -- were delicious.
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| Rich and decadent dinner at The NoMad |
Brooklyn Bucket List
Before we left Brooklyn, I had somewhat of a bucket list in my mind of things to do, since we likely will never live in there again. Some -- such as
Smorgasburg, the
Brooklyn Botanic Garden's cherry blossom festival, and the Brooklyn Museum -- I've experienced before but wanted to go to again. Others -- including a few local restaurants we had not gotten around to trying, BAM (Brooklyn Academy of Music), and walking across the Brooklyn Bridge -- were done for the first time.
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| Smorgasburg 2 weekends in a row! So much food to try... |
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| Too many vendors to re-list here (check out my Instagram for more info) |
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| Sakura matsuri at the Brooklyn Botanic Garden |
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| Eating at Grand Army Plaza food trucks outside Prospect Park |
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| Ai Wei Wei and Swoon exhibitions at the Brooklyn Museum until August |
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| Dinner at Marco's, a trattoria from the Franny's team, right across Flatbush Avenue |
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| Dinner at al di la, another trattoria just down 5th Avenue |
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| Checking out BAM and the DanceAfrica Bazaar before ice cream |
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| My 1st time walking across the Brooklyn Bridge |
Sam's Medical School Commencement
On Saturday, June 14, my husband and my brother-in-law both graduated from medical school! The St. George's University commencement took place in Avery Fisher Hall at Lincoln Center, and the weather that day was perfect for gathering outside by the fountain afterwards and taking photos.
Sam's sister, brother-in-law, nephew, and niece were able to make it to NY for the occasion (after terrible flight delays and a cancellation the day before), and it was great to be able to celebrate with them as well as with my side of the family. After the ceremony, we had dinner at
IchiUmi, and then met up with friends for drinks at
The Archive.
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| So proud of Sam for being 1 of 26 in the Gold Humanism Honor Society |
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| Being hooded by my father on stage before receiving his symbolic diploma |
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| The Son siblings |
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| Me, Sam, and Baby |
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| A little graduation/Father's Day gift for Sam |
The Move to Michigan
We were able to get a lot of things packed, shipped, and stored before graduation, but by the time we were supposed to leave on Monday, there was still a lot to do, and Sam was the one who had to do all the heavy lifting. Somehow, we had the apartment cleaned, got everything out, packed up our car with no room to spare, and hit the road. We stayed overnight at the Holiday Inn Express in Clearfield, PA to break up the trip, and arrived at our destination in Michigan on Tuesday evening.
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| This isn't a picture of the car packed up, but here's Greg, our Honda CR-V |
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| A bottle of bubbly for our new tenants who moved in on Tuesday |
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| Lunch at Sheetz in Hermitage, PA |
Since we're staying with my mother-in-law, we don't have any of our furniture here and won't need to buy much, which is fine with me because like I said, I'm already concerned about how we're going to move back! But we did buy a couple of inexpensive nightstands at
IKEA the other day, and I got a cute glass lamp to place on top of mine. I also needed more hangers, so I got 2 boxes of Real Simple clothing hangers. I own the slimline hangers in Stone but left them in storage in NY, and the Bed Bath & Beyond we went to here only had the bulk boxes in Peacock or Pink, so I decided to be colorful and went with the Peacock. Plus, it better complements the seafoam-colored wall paint in the house.
{IKEA: LYKTA table lamp, OLTEDAL white nightstand, BRIMNES white nightstand}
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| Bright hangers holding tops, cardigans, skirts, dresses, and blazers |
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| T-shirts, sweaters, jeans, pants, and more |
I have a number of inexpensive maternity clothing basics -- mostly t-shirts, tank tops, and jeans or casual pants from Gap, Old Navy, and Target (on the 2nd shelf in the photo above, plus a few maxi dresses on hangers) -- which I haven't started wearing yet. Today I'm at 19 weeks and 5 days, and as of now I can still wear my regular clothes, but I'm sure I'll be transitioning to some maternity clothes in the next few weeks.
I'll post a pregnancy update separately. Thank you for reading and sharing in our lives!
